13 Share with the Lord’s people who
are in need. Practice hospitality.
If a brother
or sister needs something, share with them.
I would add here to share it in the spirit of agape. That is, give with no thought of return. Do not give and count the gift on a
ledger. Let it go and be a gift. Give in the same spirit that God gave Jesus. We should look for opportunities to share and
give. We should pursue it.
14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and
do not curse.
This speaks
for itself, but it is incredibly difficult.
This goes along with the thought of giving the Lord thanks in all
things. The fact that Paul wrote this is
incredible. He had been persecuted many
times. He is very direct in saying to
not curse them, but to bless them. This
is the right response from a Christian who realizes that all people are created
by God for His purposes.
Some Bible
interpretations believe that is only for believers to believers. That is, if other believers are persecuting
you, bless them and don’t curse them.
But it leaves out the rest of the world who Christ died for. Paul’s own actions demonstrate that he did
not curse those who were not believers.
Therefore, I believe this applies to the believer towards all people.
15 Rejoice with those who rejoice;
mourn with those who mourn.
The world’s
motto is, “laugh and the world laughs with you, weep and you weep alone.” But this is not true for the believer. As a follow to verse 9, love one another
sincerely. If something wonderful
happens to a brother or sister, rejoice with them. Be excited.
Don’t be envious or jealous. In sincere
love, celebrate! Similarly, when someone
is mourning, if you love them your heart will hurt also, mourn with them. Do not do this in loud fake wailing as was
custom of that day, but with heartfelt pain, share the hurt.
16 Live in harmony with one
another.
Do not live
in strife with one another, but in harmony.
This suggest we can all live as part of the same song. Let’s all live together as a song of worship
to God, each person playing or singing their part.
Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low
position. Do not be conceited.
This is
basically the third time he has written do not be proud. In verses 3 and 10, he indicates that we
should not think too highly of ourselves and should lift others above
ourselves. In much the same thought,
here we should be willing to associate with those most of society might class
as lesser or lower in importance. It is
obvious very important for us to be aware that we are all sinners and we can be
a humble sinner loving everyone sincerely.
We should
not be egotistical or have a swollen importance or believe we are so wise that
we are above others. This was evident
back then in the Jewish council and Sanhedrin.
Christ came as a servant and fellowshipped with the outcast. Solomon said in Proverbs 26:12, “See you a
man wise in his own conceit? There is
more hope of a fool than of him.”
17 Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be
careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone.
This is so
very difficult. I want to say that the
vengeance is the Lord’s and He’ll use me to do it. But that is taking matters into my own
hands. This verse makes the assumption,
or is stating the unsaid truth, that evil will happen to you. But we are specifically instructed not to do
evil to those who do evil to us. In fact,
we are to do what is right. We do not give
people what they deserve just as we do get what we deserve as sinners. By doing so, even those who are against us
will realize that what we do is right.
It might make them hate us more, but there will be no doubt of our
character or in the God we follow if we are careful to do the right thing,
especially when there is no reason to do it.
18 If it is possible, as far as it
depends on you, live at peace with everyone.
In as much
as you can do to live at peace with others, do it. Do the part that is your responsibility. If others refuse to live at peace that is
upon them, but of the part you can control, do what you can to live at peace.
19 Do not take revenge, my
dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to
avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord.
This is
follow-up to verses 17 and 18. Don’t
repay evil for evil, live at peace with everyone, and do not take revenge. I am like the Irishman who was hit on the
cheek, he got up and turned the other cheek.
Then he was hit on that cheek also and he was hit so hard it knocked him
down. So, he got up and beat the other
fellow up. Someone asked why he did that
after turning the other cheek. He
answered, “Well, the Bible says to turn your cheek, and I had only the other
cheek to turn. The Lord didn’t tell me
what to do after that, so I did what I thought I ought to do.” And this is what most of us do.
Let the Lord
avenge in His way at His time. The
moment we take the matter into our own hands and strike back, we take the matter
out of God’s hands. This is not easy,
but there is yet a further step to take.
20 On the contrary:
“If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.”
21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil
with good.
Not only are
we not to repay those who do evil upon us and to try to live peacefully with
them, but we are to treat them like fellow human beings! This takes the Spirit of God living out from
within us. It is so difficult to love
the unlovable, but to love those who purposefully oppose us and do intentional
acts against us, that is other worldly, that is of God. By the same Spirit that mercifully held God’s
power from destroying us as sinners, that Spirit can indwell us and allow us to
be merciful to those who are our enemy.
In sincere
love, without pride, we should feed them if they are hungry and give them drink
if they are thirsty. Even if they do not
understand the why and it makes no worldly sense, our actions should be
understood as right and good.
Lastly, we
are not to fight against the world by the ways of the world. If we try to fight evil using the means of
evil, we will be sorely defeated.
Instead, be who you are created to by God and in the perfecting of the
Spirit. In so doing, you will be able to
do good and be good and that will overcome evil.